We were discussing how our D/s relationship had been evolving and where it might go from here. ♀ said that she often doesn’t think of us as D/s and so just doesn’t think of things to do to me or have me do for her. We have a couple of books and I send her posts from various blogs of things I think might appeal to her. Some does; other stuff, not so much. She suggested I start a list and I thought I could put it here and visitors could add suggestions in the comment section. I think it has more meaning or is more exciting if the person receiving doesn’t need to ask, so many of these items will just be reminders for both of us.

Things I can do for ♀:

-Brush/ braid hair

-Shave her body parts that require shaving

-Keep her feet smooth and nails painted

-Keep her finger nails looking pretty.

-Massage…everything.

-Open doors

-Carry umbrella

-Do more housework

-Bring her breakfast in bed

-Buy her flowers

-Write her love letters, send Ecards

-Random acts of kindness

-Take her out on dates

-Take her dancing

-Treat her like the Goddess she is

Things ♀ can do to me:

-Spankings

-Bondage

-Tickling

-Tease and denial

-Golden showers

-Public sissification

-Insist I lick any and all bodily fluids from her pussy

-Insist I lick or kiss any body part no matter how sweaty

-Insist I dress like a man or a sissy depending on her mood

-Insert anything she wants into my bottom anytime she wants

-Arrange to have me submit to or serve/pamper another woman

-Send me to a dominatrix

-Cuckold me and or insist on a sexual act with another male. (We’ve role played with these topics and had cyber sex with a man. Sometimes I think I could go through with it, other times I’m not so sure)

Any suggestions that would reinforce that she’s a Goddess and I’m her bitch?

SSS

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1. 

   The top half is nice and romantic. The bottom fairly common desires for a submissive and transgendered person.

   And probably long enough. Best to start with short lists.

   Comment by RL — July 16, 2007 @ 12:23 am

2. 

   I like the top list, too. The bottom one, not as much, but then I’m not into the humiliation angle of D/s. I like a little, to be sure, but for example: face slapping- I can’t deal with that. I think once he untied me I would try my damnedest to beat the shit out of him! He knows this, of course, so we don’t do it. I think it’s wonderful that you have lists and discuss such things before hand. Better safe than sorry.

   Hmm. It’s hard for me to try to come up with something to add to your second list, since that’s not really my thing. I think public displays would be fun, but more on the “cute” angle. Like standing on the side of the road with a sign saying, “I love my Goddess.” Throwing flower petals on the ground before her. Making sure all her clothes are clean and pressed, her shoes polished to perfection. Read her favorite books to her while she bathes. You could even come up with more long term ways to serve her: taking cooking or massage classes, that sort of thing. You know, to improve your ability to serve. The class itself would be an act of worship.

   I’ve got to say, if she wants to have you pamper some other woman, I’d love someone to paint my nails for me! *sighs* Most days I am physically unable to. Man, that would be GREAT.

   Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have my own ironing and shoe polishing to get back to. (wink) Really.

   Comment by Introspectre — July 16, 2007 @ 2:23 pm

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   Sounds more like what YOU would like to do for her and what YOU would like her to do for you. Perhaps you need to get your woman to make her own list. I bet she sometimes just really NEEDS for you to be a man. If shes honest, I bet that would be on her list. The list you made for what you can do for her is too sickly sweet. I dont think you have the gist of what D/s is. I would love to hear her point of view.

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    I agree with PK, and I also agree with your list. Those are many of the things that I would put on my list if my SO were like your SO. But as PK said, ask her to put a list together and then compare notes. I’m sure she’ll have some great things to add.

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