Our schedules have been crazy lately.  ♀ is going to school full-time and is supposed to be working part-time, but she and her employer have different ideas about what part-time is. She was hoping to be working 20-25 hours a week, but since the start of school she’s been working 30-35 hours a week. She’s finding it a struggle. We decided before the start of the school year that the only way she could possibly get through this was if she let go of all other responsibilities and distractions. She needs to concentrate on school first, then work and that’s all. You need to understand how difficult that is for her. Giving up control of the household finances was hard enough, but the real challenge for her has been the house work. The boys and I are supposed to be doing it all- well actually, I’m doing most of it and delegating when I can. ♀ likes a neat and tidy house. She’s not exactly anal about it, but she does like things done a certain way and she wants them done now. When things aren’t done to her standards she’s finding it really tough not to do them. We’re all going to need to change our ways.

Another thing that’s been a challenge to both of us is the disruption to our sex lives. How bad has it been? Well, we’re normally an every day kind of couple and we didn’t have sex once during her last period. I get home at 5am and she’s been doing homework until 1 am so she’s not interested then. But when she is horny after she’s done work, I’ve already left for the bakery. I don’t work Saturday nights so this past Saturday when I got up I started getting ready for a nice romantic evening with ♀. I cleaned up the house, made a nice dinner, put fresh candles and flowers in our room, had a nice selection of music in the CD player, I also did up a fruit platter to feed each other in bed. I was good to go. She got home at 7, we ate dinner and she said she just had a bit of homework to do and she’d get it out of the way while I was doing the dishes.

She came to bed at 11:30 and of course she was exhausted. Please don’t think I’m being bitchy about things. We both understood that we’d need to make sacrifices. It’s just that I really really miss her. She decided I should shave her pussy while she read Chelsea Girl’s article in Penthouse. She was flipping through the pictorials while I was giving her the post shave tongue test (the only reliable way to check for missed hairs) and that lead to a fast and furious fucking session. I think we were both done in under 20 minutes.

Normally we would both be zonked minutes after we finished (guys get a bad rap for that, but she’s just as bad as I am), but we were laying there cuddling and she apologized for the evening not unfolding like I’d planned. I admitted that was true, but it was still nice. She wanted to know how it would have been different so I decided to show her. I moved the flowers (she hadn’t noticed them), lit the candles, turned on the CD player and got the fruit platter with some yogurt for dipping.

 It was completely different then if we’d had those things as part of foreplay, but it really was amazing. I felt so connected with her and satisfied and happy and I know it sounds sappy, but madly in love. After the fruit was gone and the CD had ended, I blew out the candles and kissed her good night. And that led to another and another and pretty soon we were both getting excited again. Keep in mind she was really tired and I’m not 18 anymore so neither of us was sure if either of us would be able to come again, but it was so nice we didn’t want it to stop. It was about an hour later when I came and that’s what she needed to push her over and her second big O was HUGE!

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