When I was in my teens and a girl would say “we can’t have sex this week ’cause I have my period”, I never really questioned it. If I had, I probably would have thought that it was physically impossible. (I wasn’t very bright) I think I was about 20 the first time a girl started her period while we were having sex. We didn’t notice until morning and I wasn’t upset that there was blood on me, but I was renting a furnished apartment at the time and I was a little annoyed that she’d soiled a mattress that I would end up paying for. Yes, I blamed her (I wasn’t very understanding back then either).

Around the same time- early 20′s- I started dating a girl who was seeing several other guys and at least one other woman. We were out one night and I invited her back to my place. She said, “nah, I started my period today.”

I said, “So.”

She said, “Ummm, You don’t mind?”

“Should I?”

Even when we didn’t like each other any more, I was pretty much guaranteed sex with her a couple of times a month since she couldn’t seem to get it anywhere else.

I just thought of something funny about her; she would make all the guys she was sleeping with pay for her birth control pills. Not a percent of the cost, but the whole pop. I think it was about $30 that she’d collect from every guy. She probably wasn’t sleeping with as many guys as she said she was, but still, it always made me laugh at the thought of her collecting $30/month from a bunch of lovers.

Anyway, since then I’ve noticed the whole ‘no sex during period’  is a pretty common refrain and more often then not it’s the guy saying it. I’ve also noticed that lots of women admit to being extra horny during that time, though part of that could be they can’t (or think they can’t) have sex for those few days.

♀ was the same way. She’d never intentionally had sex during her period and was surprised that I would. I don’t know if she’s any hornier then usual, but other then when she’s really crampy she’s sure not any less horny.

Don’t misunderstand me this isn’t a fetish of ours, it’s just not an aversion and there’s lots of erotic possibilities that go along with period time:

-Some people think its taboo and taboos are, well, let’s face it, hot.

-If we were close to the same height then the shower would work great, but we’re not so we use lots of towels.

-She gets to lose her virginity every month; to daddy, to a teacher, to me (as a teen or a lecherous old man), to a porn star, to the high school football team…the list is endless. These work especially well if I can time it just as her period is starting.

-When we role play, gender often switches back and forth so I get to lose my cherry just as often.

-For the submissive type, being ‘forced’ to go down on her can be a huge turn-on especially if she’s been fucked first and is really messy.

-She sometimes tells me not to get cleaned up after we’ve had sex and makes me put my panties on with a liner or her panties with a slightly soiled pad.

-Painting each other can be tons of fun; nasty words, hand prints, finger painting and pussy painting gives new meaning to ‘getting dirty’. Cleaning up later can lead to even more fun.

I know

   it’s almost

                Halloween, but

                                               did you

                really think

                                        I was going to post

                                                                               a picture of us

                                                                                                           covered in

                                                                                 menstrual blood?

I do have a funny cartoon though. Click here to see.

HHNT

SSS

ps…about a year ago, I wrote a post about a new line of feminine hygiene products. Click here if you’re interested and btw, I’m still looking for investors

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21 Comments »

1. 

   I’ve found nothing that beats period sex for cramps.
   Honestly. It’s like an internal massage for swollen muscles. It did take me a while to get over my embarrassment enough to ask for it though.

   Good for you for making what comes naturally to women a part of your love-making. Something that you have both found a way to celebrate. That’s a beautiful thing

   HHNT you two!

   Comment by Tricia — October 25, 2007 @ 6:34 am

2. 

   I agree with Tricia… but I understand some guy’s views of why not… I can go either way…

   Comment by shibari — October 25, 2007 @ 9:25 am

3. 

   You are one daring woman! I don’t mind period sex, but never with a woman. More power to ya sister.

   HHNT!

   Comment by tomsgirrl — October 25, 2007 @ 10:31 am

4. 

   Period sex with my wife was a no-no, not because of me but because she was of the generation that was taught that menstruation was a “curse” to be endured by women in private and that men would be disgusted by it. I was never able to convince her otherwise.

   Anyway, nice teasing post. Happy HNT.

   Comment by lapisruber — October 25, 2007 @ 10:42 am

5. 

   What did I hear once?
   “I will swim in the red sea, I just won’t drink from it”.

   (??)
   Happy HNT!!

   Comment by ~d — October 25, 2007 @ 1:12 pm

6. 

   When I was in college, I was going to hook up with an old high school sweetie, and anyway, on the weekend I was to drive to his dorm, I started menstrating.

   He had his roommate out of the dorm room that weekend, and I sort of could not turn back. We had menstruation sex that weekend, and it did help with the cramps. The only problem he had was he did not realize I put a tampon in afterwards and he touched it. Sort of made him freak a bit.

   Comment by Camilla — October 25, 2007 @ 2:29 pm

7. 

   That time of the month?
   Bring out the dark towels…
   Happy HNT!

   Comment by tkkerouc — October 25, 2007 @ 3:16 pm

8. 

   I love having sex while having my period… and having sex just efore is really helping on the cramps…
   HHNT!

   Comment by SeaRabbit — October 25, 2007 @ 11:22 pm

9. 

   My first wife often asked me to help her climax, though never through intercourse, during her period to help relieve her cramps. Of course I got SOME compensation for my efforts!

   My current wife have a serious thing about “being dirty” while on her period and we never have sex at that time in any form. But she is often horny just as it starts and I get “credit” for bring on her period!

   Comment by Charlie Green — October 26, 2007 @ 4:46 am

10. 

    What a great post! I’ve written about this a few times myself, and recently interviewed a female pornographer who runs a “period porn” site. It’s so nice to read about people who’ve overcome the stupid cultural taboos that surround menstruation and embrace it as a natural part of their sexuality.

    I agree it doesn’t have to be a fetish – but it shouldn’t be a big no-no either. And I never considered the naughty role playing scenarios. Thanks for the new ideas!

    Comment by Speak Sexy — October 27, 2007 @ 7:33 pm

11. 

    I know that this is neither here nor there but have you tried something like the DivaCup? It’s fantastic. I’ve disliked my period much of the time I’ve had it. (It seems unreasonable that I bleed for 20% of my life) I’ve had the DivaCup for 2 years now (this month!) and it’s the next best thing to not having my period. The company has a 1yr return policy (used!) but they can have my DivaCup when they pry it from my cold, dead … well, let’s not finish that thought…

    Comment by Abbie — October 30, 2007 @ 1:52 am

12. 

    Ooo. Also, I forgot. Masterbation is better during my period with DC. It rests just in the right place to have the tiniest bit of pressure on my g-spot when I’m getting myself off.

    Comment by Abbie — October 30, 2007 @ 1:53 am

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18. 

    I can’t remember the first time I had period sex, but I have been having it for a long time. In fact I think I’ve only dealt with one guy who was uncool about it & I didn’t force the issue. I’ve had a few lovers who even went down on me. I didn’t ask them to, they wanted to, and who am I to judge?!

    As the person above said, bring out the towels!

    Orgasms are most definitely the best cramp relief. I must say the only thing that does suck that I’m horny when I’m also looking my worst–acne,bloat, etc.

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    When the river runs red use the dirt track instead

    Comment by male — March 17, 2008 @ 4:32 pm

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