WOW, what a week. We’ve been Fleshbotted for the 7th time!!! How cool is that?  Thank you Madeline.

 

Shay emailed us to say that ♀ is this weeks Cunt of the week. Well, those might not have been her exact words.

 

And the other exciting news is Jackie emailed us to say our Queynte painting is ready.

Cheers,

♀ & sss

 

It amuses her to see how quickly she can make me orgasm. The gentle squeeze of my flaccid penis, a twisted nipple, a pinch, a bite, a slap, some filthy narrative and I’m hers. Like a pimply-faced kid in the back seat of my daddy’s car    I have no control. I have willingly given it to her and now that power is hers to use and abuse as she sees fit.  Not only does she decide when I get pleasure, but she also decides how long that pleasure will last. But she’s not taking her mothers advice to get ‘it’ over and done with as quickly as possible. I’m well trained and I know we’re not done until she’s had her fill.

Last night it took her seven minutes from the time she came to bed until I’d shot my load. The sad thing was I knew she wasn’t getting excited at all. She wouldn’t let me touch any of her erogenous zones and she wasn’t touching any of them herself. My brain says stop, don’t let her do this. You’ll feel like a worthless pile of shit when you’re done, but my lust for her betrays me.

“Seven minutes. That’s a new personal best.”  A pencil dick with a short fuse, I should hang my head in shame.

“May I please give you an orgasm now?”

“I’m not even the least bit horny.” Of course you’re not. I’m not worthy to be in the same bed as you.

“Maybe if I licked your clitty for awhile, I might be able to get you excited.”

“What, so you can eat up all your cum? I don’t think so.” That’s me, a wannabe cum-dumpster.

“Would an Alpha Male would get you excited.”

“Would you kneel in front of him and get his cock ready while he kisses me?” I would do anything to give you pleasure.

“Of course I would. You deserve to be kissed by a strong and confident man; someone who can take charge of you, a man who will hold your head firmly with one hand while he kisses you deeply and undoes your bra strap with his other hand.”

“Show me how you would lick his cock.” I took her biggest toy out of the drawer and slowly licked up the shaft like a big blue lolly-pop. When I got to the tip, I teased his piss hole with my tongue and then I slid about half of him into my mouth. “Take all of him, Bitch. I want to see you swallow that big thick cock.” It took a couple of tries, but eventually I was able to get his entire length down my throat. “You are a good little cock sucker and I’m starting to believe you’d do it for real if I told you to. But if we ever brought another man into our bedroom, I’d want to hear you tell him exactly how I like it. It wouldn’t be enough to just watch him fuck me; I’d want you to instruct him on how to satisfy me in all the ways you don’t. Would you do that for me?” You really do enjoy tormenting me, don’t you?

“You deserve to have all your desires fulfilled.” I started rubbing the shaft of her phantom lover against her clit. “I live to give you pleasure and I want to serve you any way I can.”

“That’s good to know, but I’m really not horny.” She pushed my hand away. “You could go make me a cup of tea though.” At least I’m good for something.

Later, when we were cuddling the last thing she said to me before she fell asleep was, “I bet I could make you come in five minutes.”

Cheers,

sss

So, how was your V-day?

 from Post Secret

Cheers,

♀ & sss

Dedicated to my wonderful husband this Valentine’s Day

 Certain that our love will never die
The world around us sees no shy

 

As SSS unfolds so wide,

Together we will ride the tide

 

As I reflect on the past eight years
I am overwhelmed with joyful tears

 

Oh how I love you, how can this be

It’s so amazing how you watch over me

 

Five years of marriage and still going strong
In three more years, a heartier bond

 

Eight magnificent years
With scanty tears

The closer, we are to be

In many ways has set us free

 

You do so much, expecting little in return
I am unsure when, it’s my turn

 

Eight more years will come and go
Beside one another, this I know

 

As the clock strikes eight

No longer seeing straight

I’ll send you off with a smile on your face

 

Eight twist and turns is where you’ll be

Soon to return gleefully to me

 

As we grow old, I hope you see

What an amazing husband you are to me

 

With SSS always there

You sometimes feel, it’s unfair

 

Eight more years will come and go

Twenty four, will be full

Many endeavours, oh have we grown

Minimizing their doubt that was shown

 

Since the day we said “I do”
My eyes have sparkled true to you

 

 

 

Happy Valentine’s Day

I will love you FOREVER AND EVER

I left an item out when I wrote the list for the Honest S(crap) Award. The truth is I often feel guilty about being a sissy. I left it off the list  because ♀ gets quite cross with me when I say things like that. We hadn’t found the ’sissy’ label when we got married, but we certainly had a sense of who (and what) I was long before we exchanged I do’s and this is something we’ve explored together. So, some days I see her point of view and other days I just feel bad about it.

 

Why? Well, there’s so much more involved with it then just sex. If it was just a case of I need to feel lingerie in order to get excited that would be one thing, but ’sissy’ touches/influences/connects to everything. I can look back and see connections to things I was doing as a child, long before I was even aware of my sexuality. I can see how being a sissy and not knowing it affected so many who, what, when, where, why and how’s. And now…’sissy’ is such a huge factor in our lives. It influences how I think and feel about everything. She never complains about it. She likes being treated like a Goddess, but some days I feel guilty about the whole thing.

 

I was chatting with a blogger friend about this the other day and she was very surprised that I would ever feel that way. I was trying to explain where these feelings came from. ♀ is so amazing and beautiful and sexy and I love her so much some days it feels like I’m going to burst and I want her to be happy and I want her to have the best of everything and I am so not worthy and and and when I said “she deserves a real man”, blogger friend interrupted and said “maybe feeling like she deserves to be with an alpha male is part of the sissy dynamic”.

 

That really struck a chord with me and it did with ♀ when I talked to her about it later. It makes a lot of sense, dontchya think? We often whisper smutty scenarios into each others ear with endless combinations of people, places and things and watching or hearing ♀ get well and truly fucked by a ‘real’ man is a fairly common one. It’s not a very big leap from trash talk to believing she deserves to have that. It’s all wrapped up in the submissive/humiliation dynamic of being a sissy. Hopefully, figuring that out will help with the guilt.

 

Before I started to write this post I wanted to see if  ’sissy’ would be considered a fetish.

noun
: an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression.

 

Based on that definition I would have said no. But then I found this:

any object, idea, etc., eliciting unquestioning reverence, respect, or devotion: to make a fetish of  the Goddess.

Cheers,

sss

It is  rumoured that Van Gogh’s painting of the ’starry nights’ was  painted during his confinement in an asylum and that he sold only  one painting during his lifetime as he was nameless at that time. �
That’s perhaps what caused him to fall into an abyss of depression  which eventually led to his suicide.

 

 

 

 

Can you believe it? My mother sent me this…

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