I switched shifts with another baker last week so I could have a Friday night off and ♀ & I went to Exploratorium at the Libido Lounge. When we were at Deviant Dining a couple of weeks ago Jennifer told us they have about 30 different activities for Exploratorium. They had 7 set up the night we went. Before I tell you about the ones we tried,  I wanted to give you a sense of what was going on before we got there. One of the booths that was going to be there was a shaving booth. Nobody but me has ever shaved ♀ and she didn’t come right out and say she was going to let a strange man take a razor to her private bits, but she’d refused my recent offers to shave…so she was much bushier then usual on Friday night.

 

Another thing…there was supposed to be a kissing booth and ♀ didn’t come right out and say she might like to try making out with a woman, but she got a cold sore the weekend before and she spent a lot of time and energy getting rid of it before Friday night.

 

We went lingerie shopping…twice. We stopped at a love shop and she tried on a couple of sexy outfits. We didn’t end up buying one, but she seemed enthusiastic about what she might  like to wear (or have me wear) at future events.  Thursday evening we were both trying on different outfits and she seemed to really be looking forward to going. Then Friday after I’d done up her black sequined bra and found the matching panties and attached her stockings to her garter, she looked at herself in the mirror and said “I think I’m to fat to be wearing things like this”.

If I could have one wish it would be that she could see what I see when I look at her.

 

We were about half way to the Lounge on Friday when ♀ said, “I’m really not feeling very sexy.”  I tried my best to reassure her.

 I must admit that I was a little nervous as well. One of the reasons for joining the Lounge in the first place was so we could further explore my sissification, but still… new people, new surroundings…how much ’sissy’ do I show the first time? My legs and pits were shaved, my toe nails were a dark red and I wore a very pretty pair of panties. I also had a matching bra and inserts, but I never got a chance to put that on. It wasn’t that I was embarrassed, it was just there were several opportunities to have my nipples abused and covering them up (even with a pretty bra) seemed like a waste.

 

 We pulled into the parking lot and ♀ said, “maybe I should just wait out here in the car.”  I offered to stay out in the car and eat Jennifer’s birthday cake with her.  That made her laugh and in we went.

 

Jennifer has a real knack for making people feel comfortable even when they’re outside of their comfort zone and ♀ seemed more relaxed almost instantly. Introductions were made and Jennifer just loved her cake…

 

(that’s supposed to be a strap-on)

 

As I mentioned earlier, there were 7 different activities to choose from. I started out with Jason and suspension-bondage. Did I like it? Well…the bondage part was fun and the things he did to me once I was strung up…skewers, straight razor, fish bonker, straps, nipple clamps…were great, but I didn’t really enjoy the ’suspension’ part. ♀ on the other hand had loads of fun telling him where all my most sensitive parts were.

 

After he lowered me down to the ground and untied me, I went looking for ♀ and found her up on a gyno table getting her pubes shaved. Considering her earlier apprehension that would have been surprising enough, but the big surprise for me was after her pussy was nice and smooth she didn’t bother putting her skirt or panties back on. She spent the rest of the evening with just garter, stockings and bra!

 

After she was done, I hopped up on the table and got shaved as well. It was sorta weird having a guy touch me like that and even ♀ has never shaved my balls bald, but I kinda like the smoothness. Also, we were able to fuck twice last weekend before either of us got stubbly and I liked that sensation…a lot.

 

While I was getting shaved ♀ had a massage by a very sexy woman wearing a great costume. I ♥ her boots.

 

The next thing I tried was Jennifer’s ‘Electricity play’. I liked some of it and some of it was almost to intense (the zap to the tip of my cock), but ♀ had way to much fun encouraging Jennifer and telling her where the zaps would have the greatest impact. The most entertaining part of that booth was the woman Jennifer did after me was laughing so hard Jennifer was worried she’d fall right off the chair and she had to get someone to stand behind her to brace her.

 

My favourite activity of the night was getting flogged.  ♀ has flogged me before, but this was different. He really built up the intensity and he alternated between the flogger and gentle stroking with his hand. It was really quite amazing.

 

There was one other bondage table set up, but being tied up once was enough for the night. I might try it another time. ♀ didn’t try that or the yoga mostly because she’s been having some shoulder problems lately and didn’t want to aggravate it. So between the two of us, we tried 5 of the 7 activities. We had a great time and met some interesting people.

 

Since we were half way to Vancouver anyway, we had thought about going to the Penthouse. We’ve never been there and Samantha Mack was going to be dancing, but decide to head towards home instead. I am really glad we did because we stopped at a pub for a late snack and a drink and we had the bestest most open conversation about being at the Lounge…what we liked and didn’t, what we might like to do next. ♀ was able to tell me about her concerns and I listened. I told her what I hoped for and she listened. I know, I know, that’s the sort of conversation you’d expect us to have before we joined something like that and believe me, we did. But this was different. I really felt like we were communicating on a different level.

 

I’d often felt like ♀ had agreed to join for my benefit only. She admitted that was a big part. She had the impression that I felt like I was missing out and this was a way to get it. She gave me several examples and I was able to see why she would think that. I explained that I truly wanted this to be for us. I want need her to choose the activities we try and any sexual contact with anyone needs to be entirely up to her. If she wants to have sex with someone else and doesn’t want me to that’s absolutely fine. If she doesn’t want either of us to have sex with anyone else, that too is fine.

 

Any and all of my orgasms have been subject to her approval for a long time and when we role play or trash talk, she gets to fuck anyone or any gender she wants. My involvement (if any) is entirely up to her. I think for the first time Friday night she believed me when I told her I want need to still be treated like a sissy even when (or if) we move from fantasy to reality.

 

There has been another early benefit to joining the Lounge. ♀ is pretty freakin’ amazing at trash talk and the people, activities and situations of the Lounge have given her even more filthy fodder to whisper in my ear.

 

Cheers,

♀ & sss

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2 Comments »

1. 

   You two sure know how to have fun!! I’m so glad your night out was an adventure.

   Hugs,
   C.

   Comment by C. — October 29, 2009 @ 3:17 pm

2. 

   I really really loved my birthday cake - thanks again for going out of your way to make my day more special.

   Comment by Jennifer — February 23, 2010 @ 10:31 am

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