Virgin: adjective without experience of; not previously exposed to:

We attended the inaugural Virgin party at the Lounge this past weekend. There was a good mix of newbies attending their first play-party and veterans trolling for fresh meat.

Now that Jennifer has wiped her breakfast off the screen… I was kidding. It wasn’t like that at all. Though I am curious as to when exactly we became ‘experienced Lounge members’? It really wasn’t all that long ago that those looks of nervous anticipation were on our faces and it was us asking all those questions. It was kinda strange though because we still have lots of unpopped cherries and lots to learn about ‘us’ as individuals and ‘us’ as a couple and where we fit in the lifestyle and how best to negotiate play and keep ‘us’ safe….

Anyway, about the night…♀ wore a black mesh body-suit with the killer red shoes we bought in Vegas. She looked amazing and received many nice compliments. My favourite was the woman who looked at her shoes and said, “those shoes are sex.”

I wore the white baby doll and jacket we bought in Vegas with frilly white panties and adorable white sockettes with ruffles and little black bows at the heels. I have a very common first name and Jennifer told me a couple of people had referred to me as ‘lingerie  ****’.  That’s not quite a descriptive as ‘sissy ****’, but still, it made me smile. Oh and as lingerie **** I was the go-to-guy for reattaching sprung garter straps.

Pin-up bondage master Uncle M was there tying up a few lucky ladies. He has a funny place in the Lounge. He goes to most Deviant Dinings and Exploratoriums. He helps out  a lot with work on the space and lots of his artwork is displayed. So in that way he’s very active, but he’s very proud of the fact that he’s the one Lounge member who Jennifer has never seen naked and never will. This was the first time we’d ever seen him at an event where actual sex was a distinct possibility. There were several shameless hussies who tried to tease and torment him, but he seemed to take it all in stride.

A bondage master doesn’t untie the ropes and Uncle M didn’t have an assistant with him that night so women had to seek out volunteers to undo them. I still owed a friend a favour from last weeks Sultry and was supposed to do her untying, but unfortunately when she was ready to get untied (her hands were going numb) ♀ & I were in the back getting *busy*.

♀ sorta kinda helped untie another woman…well she freed one of her boobs to expose more flesh for me to use the Wartenberg Wheel on. She really really liked the wheel.

We had sex twice and I was even able to come once. We hadn’t had sex in a couple of days and no one else was around us when I came so I don’t really think it was a break through, but it was nice. Both times we fucked, a different man joined us near the end to play with her breasts while I licked and fingered her to long and loud big O’s.

So we didn’t get to pop any cherries, BUT…and this is an important ‘but’…♀ did decide she was ready to get her ‘girl-cherry’ popped. The problem was by the time she decided, the woman she wanted to lose it to was *busy* so we got *busy* for the second time and after that we were all too drained to get *busy* again. Still, that’s definitely something to look forward to.

All and all it was a good time, but the best part of the night happened after we got home. Even though it was 2 am, we had a shower, lit some candles, put on some soft music and had a long passionate love-making session. The Lounge is lots of fun, but it’s just ‘play’. Making love with ♀ is what is real and special and ours alone. That’s something you can’t really explain to people. It’s something the new Lounge members need to learn for themselves.

Another thing that can’t be explained is this…

Jennifer, you totally rock!

Cheers,

♀ & sss

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1. 

   Oh my I almost had a heart attack! I feared she might get her girl-cherry popped! I haven’t even had a chance yet! =) I was relieved once I read the whole paragraph. Whew!

   Comment by MagicDigits01 — November 8, 2010 @ 1:57 pm

2. 

   Her hands were not going numb I say with a tone of indignation. Somebody was slapping the bound damsels bum-bum and I submit to you her ass was going numb not her hands. Yet another cookie taken from under my nose as I was busy with a shiny bobble.

   You looked hot in those socks and panties btw.

   Comment by Uncle M — November 9, 2010 @ 8:52 am

3. 

   Bum-Bum slapping? At the Lounge? Are you sure? Does Jennifer know about this? I’m not sure if I approve of the slapping of bound damsels.

   Thanks for noticing my outfit. I’d hate to think I was being too subtle.

   Comment by sweatshopsissy — November 9, 2010 @ 2:40 pm

4. 

   I love reading all about your adventures… don’t stop writing, it makes for very entertaining afternoons that would be otherwise dull, and spent working.

   Just a note — you say: “A bondage master doesn’t untie the ropes”. That’s not strictly true. This bondage master does not untie his ropes. Others do.

   For example, Arisue Go, who you can read about here and here most certainly does. So does my Dom, who would blush if I called him a Bondage Master — but he also makes a definite point of untying his own ropes.

   As far as he (my Dom) is concerned, the safety of the person inside the ropes is paramount. A careless untying by an inexperienced “volunteer” could result in rope burn or other rope-related injuries. He also needs to have his ropes carefully folded to avoid contamination — you’d be amazed how many unseen staples lying on a floor can be easily picked up by rope — and unnecessary knottage. Plus, it’s part of the aftercare — I know that if it’s me, immediately post bondage session, I’m flying high as a kite and need to be looked after.

   The lovely thing about BDSM is that there is not “one twue way”. I just thought it worth mentioning.

   Comment by Elegant Slut — November 14, 2010 @ 11:39 pm

5. 

   Thank you for that Sapphire. Now that you mention it, that may have just been an assumption on my part. The only times we have seen Uncle M in action has been at events that just introduce people to bondage. The entire thing, start to finish, might only be 20-30 minutes. So not very complicated and not a whole bunch of rope and Uncle M is right there. His professional ‘Pin-up Bondage’ work is much more elaborate and from what we know about him, keeping his models safe and his ropes clean would definitely be a priority.

   Comment by sweatshopsissy — November 15, 2010 @ 12:48 am

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