♀ has been having issues with her libido lately. It’s always waxed and waned some, but this has been a prolonged drought and neither of us is very happy about it. We’ve tried not worrying about it and focusing on other ways to be connected. We’ve tried doing things and going to places that she associates with high sexual energy and nothing has really worked.

I have a theory about about why her mojo has left, but haven’t been able to figure out how to improve things.  The theory? Well I don’t want to go into too much detail, but it looks like we could take over the bakery when it closes next spring. I think it’s a great opportunity, but I really don’t have much to lose by doing it. The problem is it would take both of us. ♀ would need to quit her job. A job she worked very hard to get. A  job she loves. I think she’s feeling like she has no other choice, but to do this. So I think the right choice for me is probably the wrong choice for her. That, combined with the uncertainty of taking over a business that has been declining for the past 2 or 3 years, has messed with her mojo.

She says I’m wrong, but has no other explanation or solution.

Do you?

♀ & sss

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   I have a suggestion. When people ask for a dozen bagels, volunteer to help them pick out an assortment. Its really a lot of pressure. And ask them if they’re really sure they want the poppy, cause those damn seeds get stuck in your teeth and if you don’t pick them all out you really look ridiculous.

   Comment by Teresa Bowers — December 20, 2010 @ 6:14 am

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   I would tend to agree. I know when I get stressed about things that I don’t think I’m stressed about, it manifests in other areas. Like libido. I imagine it was a large contributing factor to my the lack of sex between my ex-wife and I. We were always stressed about money. And we both found outlets apart to cope with it. I often didn’t realize that was stressing me out though until I finally just couldn’t take the stress any longer.

   Big Hugs to you both. Can’t wait to see you NYE. MWAH! (That’s for OB, she can share if you’re allowed =)

   Comment by MagicDigits01 — December 20, 2010 @ 10:29 am

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   Life happens. And sex only happens when life is happening well. Not when life is running us down, but when we are driving and feeling on track.

   Don’t fret. Fretting ALWAYS makes it a bigger deal.

   Passion will abound again, enjoy the chance to savor in adoring one another in new ways right now.

   See you two NYE — we are at 50 people now. : )

   Comment by Jennifer — December 20, 2010 @ 12:00 pm

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