If I remember correctly, Jennifer told us at our orientation that she does not do the match-maker thing. That seemed reasonable to me. She’s a busy woman and doesn’t have time for emails from people who were to shy or distracted to remember to exchange contact information. She repeated this rule at the Play-Party Etiquette class we took a few months later. She suggested getting business cards printed that we could just hand out if there was someone we were interested in. We have very pretty biz cards btw.

 

So we were a little surprised when we got an email from Jennifer a week or so before the last Sultry. She knew this couple from Seattle and they were going to be at Sultry and she thought we would enjoy meeting each other and would we like their email so maybe we could chat online and perhaps meet in person before Sultry just to see if we’d like to get to know each other even better.

 

*keep in mind that Jennifer took it upon herself to do this. I would strongly discourage you from asking her to hook you up with, or asking for personal information about someone you’ve met or want to meet at the Lounge.

 

Anyway, emails were exchanged and we agreed to meet R & A at the restaurant at their hotel a couple of hours before the start of Sultry. They looked like their pictures and they were very pleasant and we talked about a wide variety of topics and it was all very nice, but when we were driving to Sultry after dinner, we realized that we didn’t really get a sense of who they were.  ♀ made me sad when she said she didn’t think R was interested because she’s bigger than A. I thought the problem was we kinda fell into the coffee date routine that we do when we meet people from our ad and maybe we were a bit overwhelming. Not that it matters…for what ever reason there wasn’t a spark.

 

Sultry is one of those events that non-members are welcome to attend and it just so happened that we hardly knew anyone at all that night. ♀ mojo is still kinda hit and miss so having an evening out where we mostly concentrated on just us was probably a good thing. So we didn’t actually *play* with anyone, but during the human car wash I got to rub my stubbly head against (and in between) all the boobies present. Have I ever mentioned that I am a very lucky sissy?

 

Speaking of boobies, I must tell you about one of the couples who were there. They were younger than ♀ & I. He was quite muscular. She was nicely curvy. They were a very attractive couple, but what made them stand out (lol) was her nipples. They were the length and thickness of the tip of my middle finger down to the first joint. Seriously, they were the most spectacular nipples I have ever seen in person.

 

So the bath-house where they have Sultry was probably built in the ’40′s and Jennifer was telling us that a grandfather clause in the reason it’s still there, but it has to stay pretty much original. They are very restricted with what they can do with it, so it feels old and a little seedy.  A row of tiny stalls open out into one of the hallways and there’s a bench built into each stall and each bench has a tiny mattress. Picture a crib mattress. It’s not the easiest place to fuck, but really, the only other options are one of the showers (the difference in our height makes that tough) or one of the steam rooms (heat and an audience doesn’t really work for me) Anyway, we have managed to successfully fuck in one of the stalls before and oh-happy-day we were both able to get off on this particular night.

 

After we finished we went to the cooling off area. There’s drinks and snacks and chairs and light conversation. It’s a relaxed place to hang out. We were talking with another couple about the challenges associated with playing on the little benches and we decided that they were probably designed for tiny Asian men. As we were discussing this, we could hear moans and groans and the creaking of cedar coming from down the hall. ♀ told me to go see who was doing what to whom.

OK, keep in mind that we had been sweating for a couple of hours and I’d just had an orgasm and I truly don’t have a filter.

I walked down the hall and the attractive couple I was telling you about…remember with the amazing nipples…they were just changing positions. She was bending over the bench and he was about to take her from behind and I, assuming they had just moved off of the very tiny bench said, in a voice loud enough for everyone else down the hallway to hear, “It’s just not quite big enough, is it.”

 

I don’t embarrass easily, but yes, I was pretty red-faced after that. Later, we were back in the cooling off area and Jennifer was busy putting various lotion and potions on any woman who would let her. She put an edible body paint on the nipples of a woman we hadn’t talked to at all and as her man was licking it off one nipple, ♀ told me to go over and ask if I could lick it off the other. I said ‘no thanks’ and she said that she didn’t ask if I wanted to. She told me to go ask if I could. So being an obedient (and lucky) sissy, I did what I was told and the woman gave me permission to lick the nasty tasting body paint off her nipple.

 

At the end of the night ♀ & I and the ‘body-paint’ couple were helping Jennifer load everything into her car. It turns out they were faced with the same dilemma we have at the end of Sultry. It’s not a very nice part of town at the best of times, but late at night we really don’t want to be wandering around aimlessly looking for a place to eat and by the time we get home it’s really late and absolutely nothing is open and who wants to start cooking? We live about an hour SE & they were about an hour NE from home. We had overheard a conversation about a nice cheese shop with attached tapas bar just down the street so I introduced ourselves asked them if they’d like to join us for an appy.

 

Well, N & C were just so much fun. It was like we were long lost best friends. There was so much to talk about and (or so it felt) so much to catch up with and wow, in no time they were turning the lights up and kicking us to the curb. By the time we got home they had both sent us friend requests on Fetlife. There have been numerous emails back and forth between all of us. We saw them at  the Cupids Party last week and I’ll be blogging about that later. They had their orientation (and learned the secret hand-shake) Friday night. We were supposed to meet them at Exploratorium after, but it got cancelled. So they came over to our house and we talked for like four hours!

 

Want to know something weird? ♀ & C do the same kind of work and where they work is only a couple of blocks apart. Also, they both had Pin-Up photo shoots done at the same studio in the same week. I have a really good feeling about them. They’re relatively new at this, just like we are. Their connection seems very strong,  just like ours. I think they’ll respect our boundaries and if something isn’t working, I’m pretty sure we’ll be able to talk about it.

 

Anyway, we shall find out soon. We have a play-date scheduled for later today.

 

Stay tuned,

♀ & sss

I think it’s fair to say that ♀ has her very first girl-crush. It’s not any kind of creepy stalker thing or a ‘I would so leave my husband (or switch teams) for you’, but I’m pretty sure Amy is the first woman ♀ has seriously thought of doing sexual things with. OK, just to be clear; ♀ has always appreciated the female form, she’s just never thought of them like that before and Amy is the woman we played with at the New Years Eve party, but that could have easily been just a one time thing. Anyway, since New Years there’s been a lot of online flirting. If you read the comments on our Woman Wanted post (basically written for Amy) you’ll see what I mean.

 

♀ dad is down here in the hospital for two weeks. Down here, but not exactly local. It’s at least a 60 minute drive each way and she’s been going almost every day after work. So there was absolutely no way we would be going to Deviant Dining last week. But Amy emailed to say she’d be driving up from Seattle and then Jennifer announced that there was going to be a Fire-Play demonstration and hinted strongly that ♀ would be asked to be a demo-model and all of a sudden it was, ‘I think we should go to Deviant Dining.’

 

♀, did in fact, get naked and had several fire-y things done to her…including fire-flogging and it was very exciting. Amy was the next naked model and several other exciting things were done to her. ♀ stayed naked during this part of the show and when it was over and Amy started getting dressed, ♀ became quite annoyed and told her she needed to stay naked. At one point they were both naked and sitting on my knee. Yes, I am a very lucky sissy!

 

♀ & I were invited to Amy’s birthday dinner Saturday night. Sushi with a few other Lounge members including Jennifer, Jason and the Pickle. We both really enjoyed visiting friends outside the Lounge in the ‘real’ world. There was certainly talk of sexy things, but kids and ex’s and jobs and just life stuff. It was relaxed and comfortable and it made me happy to be a part of it. There’s something else I want to say about that dinner and I hope it comes out right. Jennifer recently got some upsetting news about someone she is very close to and she looked drained on Saturday night. Now, I wouldn’t wish that news on anyone and I certainly wasn’t glad to see her so tired, but it was nice to be included in an evening with her friends and family where she didn’t need to be ‘ON’. What I mean is most of us have jobs/responsibilities where we need to be smart or happy or creative or strong or you name it…even on days we’d rather just hide under the covers. Jennifer has to do all of those things, but she also needs to be sexy and make everyone around her feel sexy and make her space crackle with sexual energy and wow, there must be nights when that is so fucking hard to do. So to be part of a gathering where she didn’t need to be ‘on’ was special to me.

 

The grandbaby came for a visit on SuperBowl Sunday while her parents went to a party. Amy was still in town so we invited her over for a visit and a baby fix. We made a yummy pizza and had a few wobbly-pops and Amy decided to spend the night. Now I see your ears perk up and your zippers slide down, ‘oh goody, here comes some hot girly action. Tell us all about it, sissy boy.’ The thing is, it was after 9:30 before the kids picked up the baby, Amy hadn’t slept in her own bed for four nights, ♀ has had a dull headache for the past two days and she’s worried about her dad and all those things and probably a few more added up to not much in the way of sexual energy. I tried to subtly (yeah right) instigate some fun stuff, but I was clumsy and obvious and my efforts were openly ridiculed. There was a naked cuddle-puddle in our bed, but I was fidgety and left before I got asked told to leave. ♀ took Monday off work and Amy doesn’t need to be home until the afternoon. Unfortunately, I sleep during the day so if anything sexy does happen, I won’t be a part of it. poutpoutpout.

 

OK, you’ll need to read this post to know why this video, ‘specially for Amy, is so damn funny.

 

 

Cheers,

♀ & sss

I think ♀ was caught off guard by the sheer volume of responses our ‘Men Wanted’ ad on Plenty of Fish  had. The part that surprised me was the number of men who obviously hadn’t read (or understood?) what the ad actually said. We had our fair share of the comical/icky/scary, but there were quite a few enticing responses as well.  We said ‘no thanks’ to any men who said they were married and their wives didn’t know they were playing. We don’t need the drama. ‘Non-smoker’ is a strong preference, but not necessarily a hard rule. Then if their response was interesting and their profile looked promising and if ♀ thought they looked attractive, she sent them the link to our blog. She’d suggest they look around to get a better idea of who we are and pointed out the HNT posts.  If they wrote back and sounded even more eager, she sent them a picture of our faces and asked some more questions about them and what they might be into.

 

Ok, when we joined the Lounge we decided we would only go to two activities per month. Partly because of finances, but mostly we didn’t want ‘play’ to take over our life. We don’t count Deviant Dining as an activity, but classes and Exploratorium and play-events, we try for two things a month.  At the time the NYE party was counted as a December thing, but it kinda felt like a January thing as well. Amy had pretty much convinced ♀ to go to her first Dirty Girls party (Jan8 ) and we have a free ticket to Sultry (Jan 29).

 

We didn’t place that ad because we wanted to spend less time at the Lounge. We still think Jennifer is super-duper awesome, and the people are great and the vibe is still sexy. It’s just that who we are able to play with there is very random. It’s always fun…it’s just that we thought we should look for additional situations that are more specific to our needs.

 

Anyway, we’ve both been fighting colds and the day before Dirty Girls ♀ said she didn’t want to go to her first all-girl party hacking and sneezing. So we decided we would go to the Naughty Party (Jan 15) instead and we’re still going to Sultry at the end of the month. Oh yeah, Lord & Lady Batsu have invited us down on Jan 22.  As you can see our social calendar was already pretty full even before that ad went out.

 

But out it went and the responses started to pour in and we got caught up in the excitement and attention. Even though we both had colds and ♀ wasn’t feeling good enough to go to Dirty Girls, we agreed to a meet-and-greet. We were both on the fence about whether or not we would play, but ♀ did get dressed sexy and packed a Ho-To-Go bag.

 

We met W at the pub underneath the hotel he was staying at. He travels a lot for work and is on the coast a few times a year. He’s younger then ♀. He was easy to talk to. Not just about sexy stuff, but life/love/the universe. We had a couple of drinks and everyone seemed very comfortable. He made it clear that he was interested, but we never felt pressured. I must admit, I liked the feeling I had taking my wife up to the hotel room of a man we’d met in the bar only 90 minutes before. It was a nice hotel and his room had a spectacular view of the river and city lights and the Alex Fraser bridge.

 

It really didn’t take long for everyone to get naked and sex did occur. If fact, hot-sweaty sex continued on until about 2:30am. W, was at one time or another, in all of ♀ orifices and several times in my own mouth. Yes, I have now sucked cock and how was that you ask.  W & ♀ both said I did very well, but considering I’ve taken Jennifer’s cock-sucking class and reviewed Carol Queen’s DVD on the same subject…it’ll take some practice. But did I enjoy it? Well, it felt like a very submissive thing to be told to do and things that reinforce that ‘sissy’ head-space are almost always good for me. They were making out the few times I did it and I liked that I was able to add to their excitement (and ♀ amusement), but I can’t imagine ever lusting for another mans cock.

 

So I do have some final thoughts about W from the perspective of a week later. He is a man who earns his living adapting quickly to a variety of situations. He was very smooth, but not slimy like some get. He was pleasant and we enjoyed the few hours we spent with him, but I don’t think we saw who he really was.  I used the past tense, because even though we all seemed very pleased with how things went, I wouldn’t be surprised if we never heard from him again. I mean that’s fine, we’re not looking for new best friends. If he does contact ♀ when he’s in town again, we’d probably play with him again and if he never does, well we had a very enjoyable night.

 

We met another man the following night. It was Sunday and we were tired and still fighting our colds and ♀ had to work early so no Ho-To-Go bag was packed. G was older than me and much rougher around the edges than W, but still pleasant enough. We talked for about an hour and we both felt comfortable with him. ♀ didn’t really get a ‘wow, I can’t wait to have him’ kind of moment, but we decided that probably had more to do with colds and fatigue than it did with anything about him. We decided that we would play once to see it there was any chemistry and we made a mid-week date. He was to come over after ♀ got home from work and leave when I left for work (that would give us 5 hours). We ended up having to cancel. We rescheduled, but he emailed a few days later to say he was going back to his wife and was no longer interested in play-dates.

 

We had another meet-and-greet this past weekend. We did have a Ho-To-Go bag packed, but that was because we were going to a Naughty Play Party at the Lounge right after. We both had a good feeling about S. He seemed very honest about why he was interested, he was very upfront about what (and who) he’d be into and we never got the impression he was telling us what he thought we wanted to hear. What I mean is he thinks cuckolding is very hot, but isn’t interested in much (if any) actual contact with me. He knows we would be interested in that and he could have fudged it  just to get laid…even if it was only once, but he knew himself and was (I think) truthful with us. Anyway, ♀ is attracted to him and sent him a note saying as much and he still sounds game and now it’s just a matter of arranging schedules.

 

So that’s three meet-and-greets and one play-date so far. According to her little black book, there are five more men we might want to meet. I just checked her POF page and three more have sent messages since she went to bed last night. As ♀ says, ‘so many men, so little time’.

 

 

 

Cheers,

♀ & sss

 2011 is going to be a year of major changes in our life and hopefully First Night at the Lounge will be a harbinger of an amazing year to come and not the one bright spot in an otherwise disappointing year.

 

We bought a shiny black pleather corset for ♀ to wear to the party and ♀ offered to let me wear one of her lacy white negligees (one of the few pieces of her lingerie that doesn’t require boobs to look nice). We also bought two doses of Forta for Women. Jennifer had mentioned it so we thought we’d give it a try. We weren’t expecting a new corset and a supplement to change her into a raging nympho, but we hoped it might help her tap into the sexual energy of the Lounge.

 

On Friday afternoon ♀ had a long soak in the tub. I shaved her legs, washed and conditioned her hair while we talked about how we hoped the night would unfold.  I thought she should take the Forta as we were leaving for the Lounge and in theory it would start working about the time we arrived. She thought she should take it much earlier. Her theory was that with so many people at the party it was highly unlikely that I’d be able to get wood even if we didn’t have sex before we left. So if the supplement helped her get aroused while we were still at home, we could make love and that would help her feel connected to me at the party.

 

She took the Forta and it had absolutely no affect, but we made love after I’d shaved her pubes and she was able to have a small orgasm. I did her hair, helped her into her corset and attached stockings to garters. She was going to wear shiny black pumps, but decided with so many people attending she might be spending a lot of time on her feet and the pumps are quite high so she wore her black boots. She looked gorgeous and I completely forgot to take pictures (sorry).

 

I’ve been trying for three days to capture that party with words and I just can’t do it justice. NYE parties, like Halloween are often expensive, drunken disappointments so we rarely attend such things. I think this was the best NYE party I have been to ever. Seriously, Jennifer and Jason put on a hell-of-a-show.  The food and music and energy were all spectacular. Want to hear something funny? Jennifer had put together a slide show (OK it’s probably not called that anymore, but you know what I mean) Anyway, there were a couple of hundred pictures of Jennifer and Jason and various Lounge members being their sexy-selves. Included in the set were all of ♀ pin-up photo’s and I had this WOW moment. We really are part of this amazing community. I just really felt it that night.

 

I couldn’t possibly tell you all that went on, but there are a few things that just need to be mentioned. There was a big burly man giving a flogger demonstration. He had a lazy-susan filled with various floggers/whackers/thumpers…Anyway, I remember the first time I saw Lord Batsu do caning and I was struck (hoho) with how rhythmic it was. The guy at the party took that to a whole new level. I saw for the first time, the artistry of flogging. The sight and sound of it was just mesmerizing.

 

Speaking of being mesmerized, another man gave a fire-play demonstration and it had a huge affect on ♀. I thought it looked cool (sorry, hot), but ♀ was absolutely spellbound. She really wants to try that.

 

 

The other super-duper completely unexpected and totally fanfuckingtastic thing that happened was we had our very first 3some. You will never guess who it was with. Seriously, try and guess and then click here. I bet you didn’t see that coming, did you?

 

It was after 3am when we got home and toasted in the new year. We fucked once more before we went to sleep and *pillow-talk* Amy fisted ♀ into a HUGE Big O while I was tied to a chair watching.

 

So like I said at the beginning of this post, I hope NYE is a sign of great things to come in the following year….for us and for all of you as well.

 

Cheers,

♀ & sss

 

 

 

 

 

 

Pinup-bondage is a dream come true and is dedicated to bondage as an artful and erotic form of restraint.

-Uncle M

 

♀ made Hot Chocolate Cupcakes for my nephew’s birthday yesterday. Guess what made them ‘hot’? Cayenne pepper and they were delicious. I know all you chocoholics will be saying, ‘well duh, chocolate goes with anything’,  but I had never thought of those two flavours working so well together. FYI, another unexpected, but really tasty combination is cracked black pepper on fresh strawberries. Yummy!

 

Why am I telling you this? Well, Uncle M’s combination of Pinup & Bondage has been kind of the same thing for me. I’m sure you won’t be surprised to hear that I’ve always been a big fan of Pinup; beautiful girls wearing gorgeous clothes and flashes of sexy lingerie. What’s not to love, right? I know that bondage has been an occasional theme in Pinup forever, but I never noticed any artistry in the ropes. It was more along the lines of, ”Oh, Bettie is tied up in this picture. My, she’s pretty. I love those shoes…’

 

Uncle M’s artwork is prominently displayed at the Lounge and I remember looking at them when we went to our orientation and thinking they were very good. It wasn’t until I met Uncle M in person that I started to understand just how cool his work really is. He’s passionate about his art and when you talk to him, you can’t help but to get caught up in his excitement for it.

  

He has a very nice pay website with updates twice a week, but I wanted to tell you about the two books he has available, just in time for Christmas.  Pinup Bondage  Has over 145 stunning high resolution photographs, each with a caption that tell a vivid story of the beauty of bondage. None of the attractive women shown in this book model professionally and have come to Uncle M for the simple reason they are attracted to this type of bondage art.

 

Steam Punk Bondage  has many of the same models as the pinup bondage book.  Sisi, Donita, Anna, Ravenas and Miss Morta are all featured in this all steampunk, all bondage coffee table book.  Each outfit was custom designed by Suzee666especially for the photos featured in this book.  Uncle M has taken the bondage to another level in this book with the use of a custom suspension frame designed to be hidden from the camera.  No expense was spared in creating this unique and very erotic photo presentation of Steampunk bondage art.

 

Actually, now that I think about it, Uncle M manages to combine three elements in his photos (so my opening analogy doesn’t quite do it justice); beautiful girls, gorgeous clothes and the artistry of bondage.  I’m sure you know someone who would love to find one of these books under their Christmas tree this year.

 

Cheers,

♀ & sss

 

ps: Uncle M sent me some loveRly photos to add to this post, but I’m having technical issues and am unable to upload…anything right now (balderdash)

When we first started talking about playing with other people at the Lounge it was suppose to be all about ♀ and her pleasure. I wanted to see her with other men. She liked the idea. It was all good.  Mostly.

 

The thing is, I love to see ♀ with other men, but I prefer the company of women. In the sexually charged, social environment of the Lounge it’s women who I want to interact with. They come in so many different shapes and sizes, they smell nice, they feel nice, they wear pretty things. I love the flirt and the tease. I want to touch and give pleasure to women and even though I don’t want the same things from women as ♀ wants from men (actual sex), it’s become an issue.

 

As a sissy, I don’t expect or even want the same rules to apply to both of us. I understand that seeing me interact with women in a sexy way doesn’t thrill ♀ the way seeing her with men thrills me. In fact, she finds it upsetting. We’ve had a challenging time finding the balance of letting me be me and her comfort level.

 

After the first incident, we agreed on a couple of things. First, my cock is hers. Period. No one is allowed to touch it, lick it, fuck it or do anything else with it without her consent and I’m not allowed to ask her for that consent. The woman involved needs to ask and that leads to the next part of our agreement. ♀ needs to be there so she can join in if she chooses or say ‘stop’ if she needs to.

 

The next incident happened when I was necking with another woman. ♀ was sitting right there. In fact she had freed one of her boobs for me to play with. My junk was safely tucked inside my panties. It was all good, right? Wrong. One of the many things I love about women is their brains work so differently then men’s, but there are times when it can be frustrating.

 

 

 It took us a few days, but eventually we figured out the rules we had in place were fine. The issue was she wasn’t feeling connected with me. She’d had a migraine headache earlier in the day and was still feeling weak and shaky when we got to the Lounge. She felt like she kept having to ask for my attention. Watching me give my attention to someone else when she was feeling disconnected from me was not a good thing.

 

We’ve been able to have some very sexy times since then (yes, I’ll be blogging about those soon) so I think we’re on the right track.

 

Cheers,

♀ & sss

Virgin: adjective without experience of; not previously exposed to:

 

We attended the inaugural Virgin party at the Lounge this past weekend. There was a good mix of newbies attending their first play-party and veterans trolling for fresh meat.

 

 

Now that Jennifer has wiped her breakfast off the screen… I was kidding. It wasn’t like that at all. Though I am curious as to when exactly we became ‘experienced Lounge members’? It really wasn’t all that long ago that those looks of nervous anticipation were on our faces and it was us asking all those questions. It was kinda strange though because we still have lots of unpopped cherries and lots to learn about ‘us’ as individuals and ‘us’ as a couple and where we fit in the lifestyle and how best to negotiate play and keep ‘us’ safe….

 

Anyway, about the night…♀ wore a black mesh body-suit with the killer red shoes we bought in Vegas. She looked amazing and received many nice compliments. My favourite was the woman who looked at her shoes and said, “those shoes are sex.”

I wore the white baby doll and jacket we bought in Vegas with frilly white panties and adorable white sockettes with ruffles and little black bows at the heels. I have a very common first name and Jennifer told me a couple of people had referred to me as ‘lingerie  ****’.  That’s not quite a descriptive as ‘sissy ****’, but still, it made me smile. Oh and as lingerie **** I was the go-to-guy for reattaching sprung garter straps.

 

Pin-up bondage master Uncle M was there tying up a few lucky ladies. He has a funny place in the Lounge. He goes to most Deviant Dinings and Exploratoriums. He helps out  a lot with work on the space and lots of his artwork is displayed. So in that way he’s very active, but he’s very proud of the fact that he’s the one Lounge member who Jennifer has never seen naked and never will. This was the first time we’d ever seen him at an event where actual sex was a distinct possibility. There were several shameless hussies who tried to tease and torment him, but he seemed to take it all in stride.

 

A bondage master doesn’t untie the ropes and Uncle M didn’t have an assistant with him that night so women had to seek out volunteers to undo them. I still owed a friend a favour from last weeks Sultry and was supposed to do her untying, but unfortunately when she was ready to get untied (her hands were going numb) ♀ & I were in the back getting *busy*.

 

♀ sorta kinda helped untie another woman…well she freed one of her boobs to expose more flesh for me to use the Wartenberg Wheel on. She really really liked the wheel.

 

We had sex twice and I was even able to come once. We hadn’t had sex in a couple of days and no one else was around us when I came so I don’t really think it was a break through, but it was nice. Both times we fucked, a different man joined us near the end to play with her breasts while I licked and fingered her to long and loud big O’s.

 

So we didn’t get to pop any cherries, BUT…and this is an important ‘but’…♀ did decide she was ready to get her ‘girl-cherry’ popped. The problem was by the time she decided, the woman she wanted to lose it to was *busy* so we got *busy* for the second time and after that we were all too drained to get *busy* again. Still, that’s definitely something to look forward to.

 

All and all it was a good time, but the best part of the night happened after we got home. Even though it was 2 am, we had a shower, lit some candles, put on some soft music and had a long passionate love-making session. The Lounge is lots of fun, but it’s just ‘play’. Making love with ♀ is what is real and special and ours alone. That’s something you can’t really explain to people. It’s something the new Lounge members need to learn for themselves.

 

Another thing that can’t be explained is this…

 

 

Jennifer, you totally rock!

 

Cheers,

♀ & sss

Like most Lounge events, our second Sultry was much different than our first one. It seemed, for us at least, to be less sexual and more social. Don’t get me wrong there was sex happening, but unlike our first Sultry ♀ didn’t spend most of the night with a variety of penises in her mouth.

Hmmm, now that I think about it, she had 3 penises in her mouth the first Sultry and 2 during the second Sultry. So I guess the difference was more the vibe. It was still lots of fun. It was just different. It was nice to see some familiar boobies faces and we met some new people as well.

 

We did the ‘human car wash’ again (fun). We managed to avoid the ‘whipped cream’ play (that stuff was really hard to wash off after). ‘Genital show and tell’ was very funny. I was thinking later that when Jennifer asked me if my penis could do any tricks? I should have told the story of shooting a load of cum up ♀ nose. Ok. I guess that’s not really a trick…it’s not like I could do it again, but I like telling the story.

 

We met fellow blogger Amy and her partner, Kitten. They were more subdued than I would have expected (they’d had an adventurous couple of days), but ♀ & I both really enjoyed meeting them. ♀ approaches men and women differently at the Lounge. With men, she’s usually making a quick decision…would I play with him? Women…she wants to know who they are and it takes longer. It was nice that all 4 of us seemed to hit it off right away.  There has already been a few emails exchanged  and honestly, I’m a little worried. Amy & I are all submissive all the time and I think ♀ & Kitten would have way to much fun devising ways to torment us.

 

So we were involved in some play and I think the reason it’s taken me a week to write this post is because I’ve been thinking about said play time…a lot. We played with another couple for the first time. As in J played with ♀ and I played with N. We were side-by-side, but it was definitely swapping and we had always said that wasn’t for us. Oh, and you heard that right…I played with N and I had told ♀ numerous times that she would never have to allow that. I did ask ♀ if it was OK to go down on N and she gave her consent, but she was already very turned on and what would she say when she came back to earth? What she said was  ‘That was awesome!’  and ‘That was so different than just being with a man.’ and ‘I think that’s something we could do more of.’

 

♀ was the only one of the four of us who had an orgasm, but apparently everyone had a good time. ♀ has very loud big O’s and J looked very pleased with getting a woman off like that and you just know I loved it. I was a little concerned with how N felt about the whole thing. She seemed a little…unsure. It turns out that it was their first time playing with another couple as well and she was just nervous. We’ve exchanged a couple of emails with them and are planning our next get together. I can’t wait!

 

After we finished playing with J & N, I went to get ♀ a bottle of water and when I got back ♀ was playing with her clit. I started licking then finger fucked her and pillow talked about what had gone on with J & N.  Her orgasm was just starting (she IS loud) when I heard Jennifer yell from another room, “OMG, that sounds like ♀ having another orgasm!” I guess it’s not surprising that Jennifer can identify individuals by the noises they make when they come, but still, it amuses the hell out of me.

 

 Oh, I almost forgot about another game we played. At the beginning of the evening Jennifer gave each person three little bags of candy. We could eat the candy OR we could trade the bags for sexual favours. The person with the most bags at the end of the night would get a free ticket to the next Sultry. I finished the night with 17 bags and I think I probably won, but I’m feeling a little guilty about it. In a group situation like that…with various combinations of  Tops/bottoms & Dom(me)s/subs it’s really hard to decide if a sexual favour was given or received. For instance J & N gave me all their candy before they left, but ♀ had the only orgasm and I love being cuckolded so really was that fair? We won’t be able to attend Novembers Sultry anyway so it may be a moot point.

 

Anyway, I think that pretty much sums up Octobers Sultry.

 

 

Cheers,

♀ & sss

2 am and I use the bumpy glass dildo to fuck her into a quivering puddle of girl goo. I go to the en suite to wash the lube off my hands and when I come back 30 seconds later she’s in the exact position that I left her; arms and legs spread wide…unconscious…beautiful.

 

It’s been quite the night and I sit on the edge of the bed watching her sleep. I want to remember every sordid detail. I usually brush and braid her hair at night, but tonight it’s the big blond rats’ nest of a woman who has been well and truly fucked. As I soak in the vision before me I can see the hand prints of all the people who have touched her and stroked her and copped a feel of  her. I can see the imprint of all the breasts big and small that have pushed up against her. I can see the smear of penises that have been rubbed on her hips and ass and between her breasts.

 

She only snores when she’s exhausted and she’ll be snoring soon. Her mouth is already hanging open and I think about the three different cocks she took into it tonight; licking them, sucking them, swallowing them as if her life depended on it. I remember the one that exploded all over her breasts and how hot it was watching him rub his cum into her flesh while I fingered her to her first orgasm of the night.

 

Her freshly shaved cunt is still puffy and red and the huge load of cum I gave her when we got home is still dripping down to her asshole, but I’m thinking about the man who licked and fingered her to her second, third, forth and maybe fifth orgasms of the night. She had one leg over my shoulder and her other leg was over his shoulder. I played with her breasts while he gave her oral pleasures and oh my my what pleasures he gave. ♀ doesn’t do anything quietly, but I don’t think I have ever heard her go off  like that before. Besides being loud she went on and on and on. Every time I looked up there were different people watching us. It was truly amazing.

 

Jennifer had lots of sexy games to play, but for some reason ♀ & I were only involved in the human car wash and whipped cream nipples. I can’t imagine how we missed the rest, can you? I think you’d need to experience it yourself to really appreciate the hot, steamy, sweaty, sexy atmosphere of Sultry. It really was beyond anything we’ve ever experienced before.

 

 

Cheers,

♀ & sss

We were at  Lounge  recently and the question was asked,  Why do men send women pictures of their penises as a means of introduction?    

♀ thought that the more interesting question was why women don’t send crotch shots to introduce themselves?  She said…with tongue in cheek (I think) that she’s going to start a new trend…

 

Hi I’m Okusan Bitch, how do you like me so far?

 

 

photo and extreme wetness courtesy of Lord Batsu.

 

HHNT

♀ & sss

ps: Speaking of extreme wetness, we’re going to our very first SULTRY Friday night. Will you be joining us?

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